It's a special day to as it's my birthday, my first Mother's Day, Carsten's 8 month birthday, and my brother's graduation from Hope! What a day :). We'll commemorate it with a Carsten update.
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| Happy 8 month birthday to Carsten, happy birthday to me, happy Mother's day to me, and happy graduation to my borther Luke. It's a special day! |
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| Carsten ~8 months! |
Things are changing rapidly in the life of Carsten right now, which means that things are changing quickly for me too. I think my Dutch nature must be getting the better of me because I often feel resistant to these changes... or maybe I just don't want my baby to grow up too fast... Here is how Carsten is changing:
- Carsten now
crawls! Yes, seriously. It's still in the army crawling stages, but boy, he can move. He started really crawling on April 26, the day Mom and Dad Huisman left and coincidentally, Luke's birthday :). So, it's been a little over a week with my crawling kid, and let me tell you - it's a little strange to find him
nowhere near where I set him down. He's been rolling for quite sometime, but he didn't usually change rooms when I wasn't looking. Now, I'll find him in the hallway doing his best to eat the laundry basket while I was trying to get the kitched cleaned up. It's now the time for us to ask: is our house really that babyproofed, and what rooms do we let him in? We've set up our house with Carsten in mind so when we got book cases and such, we secured them to the wall. However, now I need to get comfortable letting him roam, which is a wierd transition. I think it's also a bit wierd because when you're in one room of the house, you can't see anywhere else since the apartment is in 'circle' shape. So, when I'm cleaning up the kitchen, the only place I can see is the dining room table, which means that I can never see Carsten. So, to solve this issues for now, I usually put Carsten in his doorway bouncer while I do dishes. Then I know he's having fun and not getting into trouble, and I can get some work done. I'm sure I'll get to the point where I'm comfortable not keeping an eye on him every moment, but I'm not quite there yet. One nice thing about crawling that I didn't expect but should have is the loving feeling I get when he crawls to me. Sometimes it's because we're playing and I'm enticing him with a toy, but other times, he just finds me and wants cuddles or food. He's also becoming more insistent on some occasions as well: when I start getting ready to go out of the house (i.e., putting on shoes, getting a diaper bag ready), he seems very alarmed that I might leave without him so he'll fuss and crawl to me as if to say 'Don't forget me!'. I wonder when he'll realize that unless someone else is home, it's not an issue :). I should also mention in this section that he's very good at manuevering in his walker, and recently I've taken to 'planting' items (like books and toys) for him to find around the house so he has interesting things to do in his walker. Andy will be posting a new video soon with some clips of him crawling.
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| expert army-crawler |
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| Carsten likes his doorway bouncer! |
- sitting up. He's been doing this for over a month now, but he's super steady now and can sit up playing for quite some time if he chooses. He typically doesn't stay in one spot for too long, so it's not usually that long, but the point is that he now
could sit up for a while if he chose. We've also found him sitting up when we didn't put him in that position (April 25 and May 3), and here I suspect the use of the walker to pull himself up to the sitting position which is impressive because the walker moves. So again, we're making progress here! He's also taken to wrestling our play mat, which is pretty fun for him and pretty cute, so here's a picture of him sitting up, and then a picture of him after he's turned the play mat upside down (yes, he does this all by himself!).
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| sitting up with the playmat. |
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| wrestling the playmat. |
-sickness :( . Month 7 of Carsten's life has been marked by two colds, both of which took him a while to get over. The first one was mostly just a stuffed up kid, and the second one (which occurred two weeks ago) was a coughing/sneezing/running nose cold which really didn't allow him to sleep well with all the coughing the poor guy was having to do. We definitely had a rough couple of days and nights when he wasn't feeling too well. One upside is during the second cold, I actually had a snuggly boy. Carsten is usually too on the move to spend a lot of time snuggling, but when he was feeling poorly, all he wanted to do was snuggle :). So we spent a lot of time reading books and he actually cuddled and allowed me to read (most of the time he's reaching for the book with his hands and feet in an attempt to eat it). I would rather have Carsten not get sick at all, but if he does have to get sick, getting a cuddly baby for a few days is ok with me.
- 1st tooth! Carsten was extremely fussy last weekend, and since he was still getting over his cold, we just kept attributing it to that. However, it wasn't fun for him or for us and sometimes it resulted with him getting stuck in his crib to try to nap when we couldn't figure out what else could possibly be wrong. On Monday though (May 2) I finally figured out that he has a tooth coming in! It's on the bottom, and hasn't poked through yet, but I'm sure it will soon. Once I figured this out, I could understand why he was fussy and then give him baby Tylenol and teethers to help with the tooth. I must admit that I love his toothless baby grin, so I'm going to miss that. However, I'm sure I'll love his grin with teeth too.
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| bye bye toothless smile :) |
- Food! We've been feeding Carsten solid foods for 3 months now, and he's got a pretty good range of foods that he eats. He generally enjoys his food (not always though!) and eats a pretty good amount. I've noticed that if mealtime gets pushed back too far, he gets pretty cranky, which means that he's getting used to having foods at certain times. This is important for me to know because it means I need to have food on hand when we go to places over meal times (such as our church which goes from 11:30 am - 1:00 pm on Sundays). We'll be starting fingerfoods soon, which is fun and we did manage to find some multi-grain cheerioes in our online grocery store - hooray! We've been observing some funny faces from Carsten when he eats food, but he's added a new one in which I think means that he's getting to be done. Here's a video because it's so cute :):
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| Eating food on the go :). |
- Drink: We've been offering Carsten a sippy cup at meals now for over 2 months, and over that time we've had very little progress. And yes, we've tried 3 different kinds of sippy cups too, with only a slight preference towards one of the cups. We've also given him different liquids such as water, breast milk, apple juice, carrot juice, and apple/banana juice, with again, little to no progress. In fact, the only progress we've made is that he loves to drink out of real cups and water bottles. This isn't ideal as he also hits the cup as he's drinking it, which is messy, and it makes for a 4 hand operation (2 of his and 2 of ours). I think Andy and I are both getting pretty frustrated with his lack of progress in this respect, so we're trying to stay patient and encouraging. Hopefully we make more progress with sippy cups soon! Here's Carsten drinking out of a waterbottle:

- Sleep. Nighttime sleeping goes anywhere from sleeping all night to 7 or 8 in the morning to waking up 3 times starting at 12:30 am. This has been a little rough for Andy and I (and I'm sure Carsten too) since we don't have any sort of consistent sleeping pattern. I blame this partly on his colds. I'm going to make a concerted effort this next month to get him to sleep through the night on a all the time basis because it's time :), so we'll see how that goes. Daytime sleeping usually goes pretty well, but while Andy's parents were here I started noticing that Carsten was crying at every nap, which he previously was not doing. I wasn't sure what the cause was, but I think I'm not starting to suspect that it was because I was putting him down too early based on his previous napping schedule which was: wake up, go back down about 1.5 hrs after waking up, and then every 2 hrs after he woke up I put him down again. This nap schedule usually resulted in 3-4 naps a day since he takes about 30-45 naps. This last week I've tried to stretch out the time in between naps, which occasionally results in a longer nap (1-1.5 hrs) and we've had less crying and a quicker go to sleep time. This is a welcome change, and we'll see if we can get any sort of consistent pattern where longer naps are the norm (oh please oh please!). Occasionally, we still find him in interesting positions in his crib:

- Disposition. Carsten is a happy kid. This is a blessing for me since he's my 24/7 companian, and it's fun to see all the smiles that he has. He's very interested in his surroundings, which usually results in him exploring textures (like the wicker baskets and rugs) and things that move (like the futon cover, curtains, and exercise ball). I try to facilitate his explorations and have a lot of fun watching him discover his environment. I think this interest in his surroundings is also one reason he does so well when we're traveling or walking around Egg; he just likes watching, learning, and when he can, exploring. He's also very active and loves to crawl and play, so I try to make sure he gets plenty of that in his day. He loves his doorway bouncer and his walker, which both allow him to exercise and explore different surroundings. All in all, he's an energetic, fun-loving baby which makes being his mom that much more exciting :).


- Traveler: Now that Carsten is ~8 months old, he's been to Wisconsin, Michigan, Iowa, Switzerland, France, and Germany. We'll keep adding to this list, but so far he's been a great traveler! I think one of our next adventures will be attempting a nearby hike to see how we do. Carsten is a usually pretty fun to travel with, and as I mentioned above, he seems to really enjoy it, so it should be fun :).