Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Carsten - 21-24 months

Carsten Andrew - 2 years old
I haven't given an update on Carsten in a while - mostly because of our crazy travel schedule. I know, it's a rough life. So, here we go:

Talking: He's talking in sentences since he was about 21 months. The day before Mom and Dad Huisman left at the end of May, Carsten said his first sentence. Andy asked him a question about who planted the flowerbox, and he said "I did it!"So, there we have it. Along those same lines, he told his first story to us. Here's what happened to create the story: my earring had fallen out onto the floor and he pointed to it and said 'I missed it!' (2nd sentence btw). And then I said, "Thank you Carsten. You found Mommy's earring!" And then he replied, "I found it!" (3rd sentence). Later on, he found me to tell me his story and said 'Missed it!', and then he pointed to the floor and said 'I found it!'. This is his first story to us, and he's repeated it several times since then, which we love. Actually, when I wear those earrings now, he usually points to the floor and either says 'I missed it' or 'I found it'. I find this very adorable. All in all, it's super fun to have him talking with us and it makes me fell a little less like I'm just talking to the stroller when we're out because he now replies back to me. He also now can express many preferences and needs. He also can and does repeat pretty much everything we say now, so we have to be a little careful sometimes! :)

Sleeping: He's a pretty good sleeper. Except that his naps aren't always as long as I'd like or as long as he needs. Also, he still seems to be a pretty light sleeper, which necessitates that nap time is a 'quiet' time for me. He's still sleeping in his crib and to date, has not climbed out despite being quite tall for the crib. I think he's pretty good at following rules even when I'm not around (see next point).

Type A personality: There's been a few indicators that we have a bit of a Type A personality on our hands (no one should be surprised by this). 1) He generally follows rules even when we're not around and will even go so far as to tell himself 'NO' when he's thinking about doing something that he isn't supposed to do (we LOVE this and hope it sticks around for a while :) ). 2) He puts things away in the right spot, and insists that it be done that way. When Andy does it incorrectly, he says 'uh oh' and puts it in the correct spot. 3) He points out the things that are out of place. When we leave a child lock undone, he says 'UH OH' until he gets our attention so we can come over and close it, and he doesn't open the drawer even though we've left it unlocked. 

Favorites: His favorite thing of all is his blanket, which we usually require to stay in his crib but sometimes he's allowed to snuggle it around the house. The spatula has been a 2nd rate toy for a while and has been replaced with his toy tractor and digger, both of which were Andy's toys when he was little. Carsten LOVES all things related to construction equipment (especially diggers and dump trucks), airplanes, helicopters, and trains. This makes our train rides go very quickly as Switzerland seems to have a lot of construction at all times. At home we see a lot of helicopters and airplanes, so we're constantly running from one side of the house to the other so we can see them.
Digger just down the street that Carsten loves to see.
'Look over there!'
Memory: He has an excellent memory and he's also developing a good spatial memory. He knows where all the diggers and cranes are on the Forchbahn and tells us when they are missing (even for weeks after it is gone). He's also really good at remembering things that he's not supposed to do, and even better, he generally doesn't do them. He can now 'fill in the blank' for most of his books and the songs that we sing him, which is fun because now everything is very interactive.

Playing: He loves to play outside and he's also really good about playing at church nursery and at the gym. In fact, he loves to go and today when we were leaving the grocery store he asked to go play at the gym which is right behind the grocery store. Carsten also loves playing on our deck, and he especially loves to play on our playground right outside (there's trucks!).
Playing trucks on our playground.
Playing on the deck with water.
Following directions: He can now follow multiple step directions, especially when going outside is involved (like 1) put your blankie away and 2) find some socks). He's also very good about holding our hands when we're outside walking, and this is nice because now we do not have to take the stroller everywhere.

Teeth: He has everything except his 2 year molars, but never fear, those are coming in at the present moment which has resulted in some interrupted sleep. He's also pretty good about letting us brush his teeth twice a day.

Scholastic achievements: Carsten has known all of his shapes since about 21 months, and he has known his colors since about 22 months. At 23 months, he could count to 10 verbally with us, and now at 24 months, he recognizes all the written numbers from 1-10. 

Size: We won't know his exact measurements until his doctors appointment in about a week, but I can tell you that he's in 3T clothes and has been since he was 21 months. The 3T clothes fit him quite well, so who knows how much longer he'll be in them :).


Cats: It seems almost everyone has cats here, and the cats are allowed to be out of doors most of the time. Now that we've been here a bit, I know which cats below to whom, so I feel comfortably letting Carsten touch the cats that are nice. And he is THRILLED to be able to pet the cats. He's very gentle, and has only pulled the tail one time. :)
We taught Carsten to drag a stick so the cat will follow him :).
Happy Kid: He really makes the most of life and takes every opportunity to enjoy it. Carsten always keeps busy with something, which sometimes makes him hard to keep up with, but overall, I enjoy it very much :). He also seems to have a good sense of humor and he likes to be goofy (see photos below).
Step 1: Insert extremely large piece of banana into mouth.
Step 2: See if Mom and Dad will laugh (we try very hard not to).
Cheesy smile.
Blowing out his birthday candles (he did it too!).
Loving his chocolate cupcake.
We anticipate a lot more fun as Carsten is two, and he'll experience some major life changes as we move to New York in January. We love our little buddy!

Monday, September 10, 2012

Happy 2nd Birthday to Carsten!

Happy 2nd Birthday our little buddy!! I know I've posted this photo on fb, but I wanted it on the blog too :).

We had a fun and relaxed birthday day for Carsten, which mostly involved making chocolate cupcakes and eating chocolate cupcakes. Andy wasn't feeling well, so he didn't get to indulge, but we still managed to have a very nice day as a family. A more detailed update on Carsten will be coming soon! 

Friday, September 7, 2012

The great 2012 sickness

Well, this last week has been a doozy. A week that I do not want to ever repeat. Last week Friday, I was ill enough that I had to ask Andy to stay home and watch Carsten, which is not something that has ever happened to me before. Luckily, Switzerland has an amazing policy which says that you can care for your dependents (aka Carsten and I) for a certain amount of time without using up vacation days. Go Switzerland!

Well, anyway, I was sick enough that I was laying down on the couch for 3 days straight, and Andy was wonderful in the way that he took care of Carsten and I. Carsten even got to have some Daddy time (went on walks and went to the 100 year Forchbahn train celebration). Unfortunately, Andy got what I had, but fortunately, it was when I was starting to feel a little better, so I could start taking over more duties with Carsten. I'd have to say that I've never been this sick for this long, and now after a full week, I'm finally feeling mostly normal. And after a week of being sick, I've lost ~9 lbs. Not a fun weight loss plan.

By some miracle, Carsten seems to have only gotten a touch of what we had and he has missed the worst part of our symptoms. Mostly he's been waking up once during the night, but then sleeping in a bit to make up for it. He still has a voracious appetite, which I take to be an excellent sign of his overall health.

So, if you have been wondering what we've been up to, please be assured that it has been absolutely nothing fun, and if we're going to have a weeklong staycation again, we'd like to all be healthy. Here's a photo that is representative of our week:
being sick is no fun.
And here's a couple of photos of the Forchbahn celebration - wedgie wars anyone?
apparently Carsten did not enjoy himself as much as we thought he would... :)
Wedgie wars with burlap sacks. 

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Zurich Airport Observation Deck

Our friends Kai and Vanessa flew back to Switzerland on Saturday, and since we wanted going to meet them at the airport, we decided to go a little early so we could to go to the Zurich airport observation deck before they arrived. The observation deck had an amazing view of the planes that were taking off, and it had a lovely airplort themed play area for the kids as well. Carsten was enthralled by the planes and after a bit, we let him explore the playground. If a plane was taking off (every 3-5 min or so) then he'd RUN to go see the airplanes and then RUN back to the play area. He was SO pumped :). We stayed there for about 1.5 hrs and we all had a lot of fun. It was a fantastic activity, especially for a little boy who loves planes. :) Here's some photos:

AIRPLANE!
He just wanted to watch for a LONG time.
Bye bye airplane!
play area
play area
Yes, Andy got inside the plane. 
Carsten kept running back and forth between the viewing area and the play area.
Airplane!
After the observation deck, we got to see our friends again! Woohoo :).

Friday, August 10, 2012

Dinner with the Wiersmas

A friend from college and his wife, Josh and Kaitlin Wiersma, happened to be visiting Switzerland for vacation, so we met them in Zurich for supper at a fantastic Swiss restaurant in downtown Zurich. This is a rare treat for us because of a) they're from the states and b) we really don't eat out that much due to the incredibly high prices. It was wonderful to meet Kaitlin and to get to talk with the both of them. Carsten did really well, especially since he took a pretty short nap that day. The food was incredibly delicious. :) Here's a few photos of our evening:
Josh and Kaitlin!
yummy!
The restaurant had a very large gun. 

Swiss National Day

August 1 is Swiss National Day, and since it's a Federal holiday, we got to spend the day with Andy :). I'm not sure what we did last year, but we did not go into Zurich because we thought it would be way too busy. That assumption was completely wrong. In fact, Zurich was deserted. It was strange. So, we slowly made our way over to where the parade route was, and got to watch the parade with a few other people. Apparently the parade is not that well attended. I enjoyed the extra space, and actually, the parade was pretty good. Alpenhorns, large cowbells, and men throwing Swiss flags were featured (see video below). Also, everyone in the parade was dressed in traditional costume, which I always enjoy. Carsten really enjoyed the parade, especially the bands. Here's a few photos and a video of the parade:
Switzerland!
This is how people try to spell our last name here.
Getting ready for the parade!
Traditional costume.



After the parade, we followed the crowd to the square where they were reading the Swiss Constitution (we of course did not pay attention since it was in German). We elected to try a specialty from one of the cantons (see photo below), and it was honestly one of the more disgusting things I've ever had. It looked like fruit pizza. Instead it was a piece of bread covered in what tasted like rot. We threw it away after 1 bite. Yuck. We did have better luck with an almond pastry after that.
Gross. Gross. Gross.
It was nearing lunchtime, so I went to the grocery store to get some food while Andy inquired about paddle boats. We had been wanting to go on a paddle boat in the Zurich Lake for a while, but we were too nervous to take Carsten on. They had life jackets included in the rental, so we got one for Carsten and set out. And by we, I mean Andy. Andy did all the paddling while I held onto our son in the back. Carsten sat happily for quite a while we finished our lunch, and then I let Carsten dip his toes into the water, which he really enjoyed. In fact, he enjoyed it so much that we ended up letting him get almost all the way in the water (clothes and all!) while I held him from the boat. He could have kept doing that for quite some time, but we had only rented boat for 30 min, so we had to get back. We'd really like to do this again, but next time we'll all be bringing swimming suits! :) Here's a few photos:
Sitting nicely.
He loved it!
Pretty Zurich.
We then headed home and got Carsten into bed for nap, and he slept for 3 hours. So wonderful! We then had a relaxing evening in Egg, and got to listen to fireworks from about 9 pm - 12 am. It was a bit later than we would have liked to hear fireworks. Oh well. All in all, a great day!

Potty training debacle

Well, after hearing about the potty training success of Carsten's twin cousins from Michigan, we thought we would give it a go with Carsten. To summarize the method we tried (by Lora Jensen), it's a three day intensive potty training course which basically involves putting the child in 'big kid' underwear, and then rush them to the potty any time you notice that they need it (meanwhile you're pumping them full of liquids). The method emphasizes positive comments, which helps make it a good experience for your child.

Anyway, we started out with a lot of enthusiasm and hope, but that quickly was replaced with frustration and a loss of patience after three days of accidents. Carsten definitely improved over the course of the three days, but he never got to the point of telling us BEFORE he had to go. Sometimes we'd get lucky and guess the right time, but that didn't happen very often. After going back and forth on whether or not to continue the method after the three days were up, Andy convinced me to try another day. The morning was fantastic with no accidents, but the afternoon quickly went south. I again tried on the morning of day 5, and then decided to quit after 2 accidents with no signs of recognizing that he had to go before he went (he was good at telling me when he was going). The other side effect that none of us enjoyed was the loss of sleep at nighttime and at naptime. In fact, Carsten was extremely exhausted when day 5 rolled around, so I'm glad we stopped then.

Carsten simply was not ready and we definitely gave it our all. Andy even stayed home from work to help with days 2 and 3, but all was for naught. I was a bit worried about returning to diapers after all the brainwashing we were doing about the potty, but Carsten really doesn't seem to care which is nice :). So, now were enjoying getting out of the house again, and we're all really enjoying that I don't have to spend every moment right next to Carsten. So, hooray!, we're done until next time...